We all want to be loved and deserved to
be loved. Love when it’s genuine and reciprocated is a beautiful thing. Love
between two people should be as natural as breathing. No forced emotions or
pretentious reactions, just a peaceful calm in knowing that the love is true.
Most of us dream of this kind of love, but very few of us ever experience it.
Others have settled because it’s better to have something than nothing.
Being single is a time to enjoy life,
getting to know yourself; your likes and dislikes, and if you're a
Christian time to find out what God would have for you to do in your singleness
but being single is definitely not the end of the world.
I can't imagine anything worse. Living a
life of doom and gloom, staying with someone because you don't want to be
alone, or staying with someone because you're hoping they'll love you. Even
though every one of their actions has proven that they won't, will not, ever
love you.
It’s tragic really, but that’s what some
singles have reduced the love they hope for to, cheap thrills... Late night
hook ups, no sleeping over, they can sleep with you but no one can know about
you, no introductions to family members or friends, you never go out to eat
because that's not the deal. Some call it friends with benefits, others
sleeping buddies (I'm just being polite here), side-line thing, or pass time
bunny.
Aren't you
worth more than that?
Why reduce yourselves to nothing
more than objects to be used and discarded?
Surely you’re
worth more than that!
Knowing Who's you are, who you are, and learning to love yourself is the
first step in the direction of discovering your worth. If you don't know who you
are and you don't love yourself. No one else is going to want to know and love
you the way you desire and deserve to be loved. I'm here to tell you that
you're worth more than unworthiness. You're worthy!
Worthy to be loved! Worthy to be
considered! And Worthy to have your desires met!
You can't attract what you truly want in
life if you are filled with self-hatred, self-pity, resentments, bitterness,
discouragement, and doubt which are all negatives, because that is what you
will attract.
If you're a single man or woman reading this know that you are loved.
God loves you and so do I. Start loving yourself today. Start by practicing
this principles: -The Law of Attraction. Draw what you want towards you by
being positive. Always expect the best and be the best yourself. God bless!
1 comment:
You attract that which you are; an adage repeated several times over and seen to hold true as witnessed in relationships seen around us. Loving yourself is a fine line, yet a necessity to fulfill any fulfilling relationship. You don't want to be narcissistic, but one does have to know their own self worth before they can truly extend themselves to someone else. Love is sometimes hard to accept, especially when it has gone wayward in the past, rather it be at your hand or the other party(takes two to make it, takes two to break it). Although, I do agree that being single is a time of self reflection and revamping of oneself. It allows us time to slow down and recalibrate ourselves. Sadly relationships have been reduced to brief encounters and 'meet ups', gone, for the most part, are lasting, genuine bonds that tie two hearts together. Be true in your commitment.
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