Have you ever dated a man who was hot
for you one day and cold the next? Frustrating isn't it?
Dealing with a situation like this
can make you bitter, agitated, and or aggressive towards that man but doing
these things doesn't usually solve the issue. Fact is, it makes things
worse.
Here's the
thing. When a man wants you, he is intentional, he is accountable, and he will
pursue you and make sure to leave no doubt in your mind about his affections
towards you. If you're feeling uneasy or hesitant about a man you're dating
because he constantly sends off mix signals. TRUST YOUR INTUITION, it
is a built in alarm system that forewarns you that something is not right. It
does not always mean that the person is with someone else, but in some cases, that
is often the reason for mix signals in a relationship. It could also mean that
they are not a right fit for you or they are just not that into you and that
should be good news for you. I know, I know. It doesn't sound like good news
that someone is not into you, but here is why it is good news.
No one wants to be with someone that
isn't a little crazy (in a good way) about them. I am presumably sure you don't
and I'm convinced that I won't. Each one of us wants love, but that love should
never come at the price of abandoning your self-worth or self-esteem. A mature
man recognizes a mature woman worth and will not squander her love and
affection away by playing games. He understands that if he does he will lose
her to someone who sees her value and is willing to step up to the plate.
How do you handle
a man sending mix signals? Simple, you move forward in confidence knowing that
you don't have to settle. Don't sit around waiting for him to call or to make
plans with you, you don't make him a priority, and most importantly you don't
share your body, and heart with him. If you choose to remain friends,
understand that it might be one-sided. Spare yourself the emotional roller
coaster ride and get off.
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